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Boys club: Mommy’s not invited.


  • I carried him in my womb for 9 months.
  • I laboured and was in wretched pain for over 12 hours.
  • I nursed him.
  • Changed his bum.
  • Gave up sleep – countless hours of sleep.


Jude is 3 now.


All grown up.

Doesn’t need his Mommy anymore.

or so he thinks… Continue reading Boys club: Mommy’s not invited.

You is kind. You is smart. You is important.

Wade and I went on a date last night celebrating 7 years of marriage. Dinner and a movie was on the roster for the evening. Jude went for supper to my parents and then home to bed where his Aunty and Uncle babysat. It was a fun evening. Although my meal was a huge disappointment. THEN the early show was sold out.. 🙁 sad. SO Wado convinced me to stay up late and go see the ten o’clock show… yikes… I do not do well with late! BUT we were celebrating after all. 🙂

So we went and saw ‘The Help’ – I cried, laughed, got angry, was appalled and ashamed – mostly I cried. All in all it was a fabulous movie and and incredible reminder of where we were as a human race, and how low people can go. What disturbs the most is that after all these years there are still people who maintain these views of people of other nationalities. However, this post is not about racism – so let me stop before I digress any further. Bottom line – watch the movie! Continue reading You is kind. You is smart. You is important.